If you are struggling with life, this book may help you become a new, different, and better person. You don't have to be bad to want to be better. You will answer several series of questions to help you find yourself and identify your attitude - the way you think and feel - about life. The decisions you make, your choices, the actions you take, will determine the direction of your spiritual life, your personal life, and your relationships. Your marriage, family, career, friendships, health, eternal destination, etc. are at stake. You may have a hard time believing in yourself. You may believe you have made too many bad decisions, failed too many times, had too many losses, received too much criticism, and you are mentally, emotionally, and/or spiritually defeated. There is hope because there is help. You may need help in seeing your strengths and your abilities. You may need help in believing there is a better way, a better life, a better future. You need to know you can experience a new beginning, a new, different, and better life. Some people will need help in finding a better way, a better life, and a better future. Some people will need to be helpers. This book will help prepare you for that assignment. If God chooses you to be the helper, you need to listen and learn, try to be understanding even though you do not understand. Be patient, thoughtful, kind, and genuinely caring. Learn to ask the right questions and give them hope and direction. Hear more than what they are saying, hear their fear, their frustration, their loneliness, their hurt, and then you may understand. Look them in the eyes; be attentive to every facial expression. The Bible will be our guide on becoming a new, different, and better person so we can be a happy camper. The Bible says we can experience a satisfying way of life. Romans 12:2 is the scripture from which we launch this book. Romans 12:2 (TLB) "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but be a new and different person with a fresh newness in all you do and think. Then you will learn from your own experience how his ways will really satisfy you." You can have a new, different, and better life. I think many that have become the most caring, thoughtful, sensitive, and compassionate, are the ones that dealt with failure, circumstances beyond our control, and accepted it as part of life, and started over to make life better. They let the failure refine, sharpen, and enhance their life. Conflict, disappointment, and/or failure does not mean the end of all good in our life. It does not mean we are worthless. It does not mean the future is hopeless. It means something is wrong, something is broken, something is not right and it needs to be fixed. A weakness of the human mind may be that we think about the present more than we do about the potential end. We focus on what we want right now or how we feel instead of where this may lead us. This book will help you design a plan that will make the end good for you. We are talking about identifying our problems, our hurts, our failures, our losses, and securing a plan to resolve these issues; and have a good ending. We may not be able to do anything about what happens to us, but we can do something about the way we respond to it. Our response can be one that will lead to a good ending, or it can lead to a bad ending.