The exchange of power for genuine loveContrary to what we have been taught at a young age, women need to be possessed by a honest man's love, that walks into their lives with genuine motives for love. Similarly men have a fundamental psychological need to shower a woman with his love, but sometimes fear of being less of the man they want to be for the woman they sincerely care about get in the way of that. Men want power; and women want love. In order for a marriage to be successful a marriage needs to have an exchange of the two within their sacred union. Women need to experience power as love, and Men need to perceive love as power, its an equal exchange between the two. The exchange of female power for male love is at the heart of the relationship. The foundation is trust, the heart is power and the love you share equally, the soul of your relationship is your communication, and the life of your commitment is your friendship. As a man your courtship involves you winning over your female counterparts trust so that she would willingly surrender the power. And as a woman your union involves you to place all of your trust in him and the commitment you share so that he would be willing to fully give all of his love. The one thing women need to realize is if your actions are in line with every other woman out there, how you expect your spouse to see you any different than the women of his past. In order to catch and keep a good man, you must be a woman that he can't afford to loss. That woman can't be just seen as such within her own eyes, it has to be seen in her spouse eyes as well. And her actions and words as a queen must reflect that woman.